What is compatibility ?

Compatibility issue, it’s a very common phenomena these days, we see people whether they are in business, in office or at home complaining about difference in opinion and mindset.

We usually have a habit of seeing things from our perspective and therefore end up being disheartened, especially in relationship where expectations are always on a higher side and we try mold the other person as per our choice.

Let’s think it from different angle now why two people born in same city or same house still possess different mindset or different thinking pattern, which actually create chaos in relationships.

Let’s go little deeper, every individual who has been on this planet has a chip inside, which takes charge of this life. It is that chip only which executes everything.
Just the way our cellphones are run through unique Sim , Every Individual is also born with a unique composition of Energy or Sim.
In case you want to call a person you need to dial only that specific number provided to the person, no matter you like or dislike that number or service provider that is the SIM which is associated to the person.
Exactly this way we have a SIM or chip which controls everything and we need to use this chip only to manifest anything.

That chip is nothing but our Soul.

The programming of the soul has been done differently for each person depending upon his/her Karma and desire. No two individual ever possess same sort of programming because there are no such possibilities of having same level of karma and desire for two individuals.

Just the way we need make a call to the other person to get connected, we need to activate our soul to connect to our true selves or say divine energy or our higher self.

Now coming back to our basic question again.

Why do we have differences in opinions , this is because every person has been provided a soul which has unique set of programming, No two person can think alike or respond alike, because programming which is done to those individuals bring different outputs (perception, response etc)

Occult science like astrology, numerology is nothing but a method of decoding that programming . You see people suggesting remedies or making prediction which is based on the programming of the the soul , that programming is gauged through study of energy , we are primarily made up of 5 types of energy which are also called 5 elements of nature .

The Composition of these elements is different in each individual and which makes that individual unique again.

These elements are also studied through 9 planets because these 9 planets also represent one of these elements example:-Sun represent fire element etc.

Now coming back to our original topic again. We usually have an issue of difference in opinions due to unique set of programming in each Individual

And to get her rid of this problem is to get a true knowledge of self which says that there is nothing as good or bad, everything happens or executed as per the will of divine power, if you possess certain quality there is always a Divine purpose behind it, that quality or trait may be called as bad or good as per the programming of different set of People. But on fundamental level nothing as right or wrong exist.

But in case you want to bring any change which you thing bring obstacles in your success or then this needs to come from inner self that is your soul that chip. The programming has to be changed, Input has to be changed to bring desired output, and to do this we need to activate our self, and we need to activate our soul.
A proper knowledge of self through meditation and yoga and reading different scriptures helped me understanding myself and to change programming of my soul.

We always have a control on ourselves but we can never change the other person because he is born with unique set of programming which is needed to pay off his last karma. Therefore at last I would say that only way to be compatible with the other person is to accept him/her in as is way, there is no other way.

When we accept a person or situation in as is way, we technically drop ourselves and put it on universe to handle it. Now it becomes its (Universe) choice as to what it wants to do with this situation.
You will either see things changing, or getting rid of that situation or person or would require to accept it little longer until your karma with that person/situation pays off
All. I am trying to say is to understand the science of human nature, its psychology and our soul. It’s really essential to understand the science of karma as well, because when we gain higher knowledge then we take correct decision.

Changing mind set from good or bad to acceptance and accepting divine will is the only way to have peaceful relationship or meaningful life.

There are so much more to share. Will continue in further articles.

Thanks for reading

Stay Divine..Stay tuned.


My First Blog Post

The Conditioned Mind

We have all heard a lot about the words like” Conditioning of Mind” or Conditioned Mind”. What exactly is it? And what do we understand by the word “Conditioned”. Conditioned means something which is not free, something which is programmed and has a limitation. So, when we say conditioned Mind, it simply means a mind which is not free, is already programmed and has a limitation, a mind which cannot think beyond. In our Daily life, anything and everything we see, perceive and respond is very much affected by the conditioning (programming) of our mind, just like the way we program a software and it works accordingly our mind is also conditioned which responds, reacts, interpret, judge people and situation as per the programming done. Now the question comes how does a conditioning of Mind happens? and how every single individual has a different programming basis which they see life, they see world. The conditioning of Mind happens due to the information fed into our mind over a period and this information is accumulated due to the factors like Geography (country you belong to), religion, culture, society, educations system and most important our belief system. Hence as we grow old our mind is puffed up with such information and programming gets rigid and more rigid and there comes a reason when we start categorizing everything we see, smell, touch and feel (our senses, I am referring here) like good and bad, ugly and beautiful, right and wrong and so on. Hence our mind only thinks and reacts asper the information it has received over a period and hence becomes a slave of it, it drives us, and we become a slave of it. On a Fundamental level , everything is made up of energy and that is something science has already proved and the source of Energy is also same , hence everything in this world which we can see and things which we can’t see are same as they are all made up of same energy but we perceive it differently because there is a definition provided for each thing and we can’t see beyond that definition. For example when water is boiled it changes its shape and turns into steam, but actually we all know that both are same energy it’s the pattern which has changed ,the same logic applies our life, it’s just that we need to accept the fact that every individual is a unique pattern and hence we don’t need to categorize them rather accepting and see them the way they are. Also, since each person has been grown up differently so is his mind and therefore one single thing is perceived differently by two individuals because they have been grown up differently. I don’t say that its bad to follow any belief system and not being systematic while dealing with situation or people, but all I am trying to say is to stay aware and accepting the things they are rather than judging them or giving them a label. The Life is vey simple, everything which is around us is so simple and beautiful, it’s just our rigidity and way of labeling things which makes it so complicated and miserable. It is just our mind which makes our life easy and difficult and not people and situations really. Since we don’t accept them the way they are and try to manipulate them as per the information fed into our mind we end up getting stuck into the vicious cycle. We really need to understand the fact that it is only and only our mind which makes our life beautiful or miserable and once we become little aware of this fact then life will really be very peaceful and easy to live, our relationships will get better, we will be able to lead a satisfying life with same amount of resources and situations. Now to do this, all we need to do is to unconditioned our mind, that means deleting the existing information or challenging the existing information to think beyond or to think out of the box by being aware or awake. Now it is not as simple as it seems because our mind is programmed this way in many years and deleting this programming is not that easy and requires changing the pattern we see the world and see life. I will be sharing my life’s experience here, where I came to the state where I have been able to see everything in my life as one energy and its just our mind which sees or perceives it differently. That is because we are in ignorant state of mind, as soon as we move from ignorant to aware state or in simple terms from sleeping to waking state, we will be able to understand this entire creation as one energy and hence will be able to accept everything with Love and Harmony. In this article I just touched upon the conditioning of the mind which is cause of all mental problems of every human being who is in a sleeping state, in my next article I will talking about “what awareness is all about?” And how do we get that state. .

— Varsha Sharma.

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